| I would rather live my life as if there is a God, and die to find out
there isn't, than live my life as if there isn't, and die to find out
there is. | comments: 13 comments or Leave a comment   |
| | Just to answer everyone's questions about my new job. I work as a Advertising Publishing Assistant Located in Chatswood for Subcribed newspapers/magazines of Lawyer's Weekly, Risk management, and Human Resources.(I am sure you may of heard, read or seen the mag before) Basically, Anything to do with the advertisements that you see in those newspapers/magazines I have a part in. It's one major step for me and I'm doing ok so far! OMG every week there is a deadline! Major stress for everyone including me! | | comments: 4 comments or Leave a comment |
| I think its time for me to invest into an iPod....
Its like a total now trend! It has become SO popular, Schools are banning them! First moby phones and now iPods...?
Did you know that it is compulsary for PLC girls to have a LapTop or notebook? My sister's friend who is only 14yrs of age, has an apple notebook + iPod and she finds that there is nothing wrong with doing all her homework and school projects on it. The only problem that she has with the pc policy is that you can't be on the internet while in class! | | comments: 1 comment or Leave a comment |
| I put on alot of weight...
I got myself some tits and a belly...
I said goodbye to size 8.
Its great being FAT! | | |
| The more we value a relationship, the more we are interested in and care about our partner's feelings. When they say "I feel x" we are curious to know why they feel x. And when they feel sad or hurt or upset, we feel more empathy if we value them or the relationship more.
We all want to feel cared about. We want someone to feel empathy for us when we are in pain. That pain may take the form of hurt, sadness, or anger, but in all cases we want someone to care how we feel. This is an evolutionary survival need. It was critical to our survival that when we were injured, we were able to express ourselves, to get someone's attention who cared enough to go out of their way to help us. The better we were at communicating our pain, and the more empathy we were able to get, the more likely we were to survive.
The more important we are to someone the more likely they will care about how we feel. Thus, we all want and need to feel important. If we meant nothing to the group that we were in, they might just decide to leave us behind at some point. But if we were important to the tribe for some reason or another, they would make an extra effort to help us.
When we are in pain though, it is a bad time to start trying to become important to someone and to get them to care about us. This is better done before we are in pain. Once we are in pain, we may quickly become bitter if we need their help or empathy and for some reason they are not giving it or showing it. If we then start to attack them, they will become defensive. Again, this is strictly an evolutionary survival response. The more we attack them verbally, psychologically or otherwise, the more defensive they become. And, importantly, the less empathic they become. | | comments: Leave a comment |
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| | How to make a mangosaur |
Ingredients:
5 parts friendliness
3 parts ambition
3 parts ego |
Method:
Add to a cocktail shaker and mix vigorously. Add a little curiosity if desired! |
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| Thang nguc lon, bu cac tao, may do ngu, anh khung, con di, di du may.
Em ghet anh. Thats right fuck you | | comments: 13 comments or Leave a comment |
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